Sex is a dance or an activity for two. If you want to have the best experience, a guy has to know how to make her orgasm. The opposite is also true. However, most men (and women) know how to give a handjob, and few men know how to make a woman cum, then it’s time for men (and women) to know how to pleasure a woman. The aim is to make it a pleasurable experience for both men and women who want to do it again soon.
Text guides are excellent, but what about girls fingering each other? Close your eyes and think. Take a look at their technique and then go out into the field to test it. Women should know what makes them tick. Admittedly, some women don’t play with themselves. This is also for them to read and understand the female orgasm.
One of the most sensitive parts of the vagina is the clitoris. This little nub of flesh has more nerve endings than a man’s cock. Before playing with it, you must know where it is. The clit is located at the top of the vagina. Follow that slit where there’s a tiny nub of flesh. It’s usually hiding a flap or a hood. When aroused, it becomes engorged and more visible.
Once you are good at fingering, push one or two fingers down her vagina to let the juices flow. At this point, her wetness levels have reached an all-time high, and she would love to be able to hold something in her body.
Have you ever witnessed a woman have an orgasm? Not in those adult movies where half of the time it’s faked. I mean the real deal! Her body changes include a rise in heart rate and an increase in temperature. Particularly in the lower part of her body! There are other signs, including uncontrollable breathing, heaving and micro tremors. Sometimes there is also shortness of breath and a short period of unconsciousness.
How do you know if a woman has fun? Take a look at her nipples. If they are hard, then she is having fun.
You can experiment with different fingering techniques if you meet with a woman for the second or third time. I love to rub her through her panties. The fact that you can’t see all the beautiful things happening inside her makes for an unforgettable experience. You can also experiment with rubbing her over her clothing.
Placing your fingers can be tricky at first. The vagina might be tight, and it would be difficult to insert a finger inside. However, once you have a finger or two inside her, try to use a “come hither” motion like tickling the roof of her vagina. Remember to go slow, find her g-spot and then go faster once she’s ready.
Some women enjoy the taste of their vaginas, while others refuse to. Assuming she does the latter, don’t get offended. Every woman is different and unique when it comes to sex. That’s just the way she is, at least for now. Things can change, so keep that in mind. More importantly, don’t try to shove it down her throat again. This is not an appropriate movie for adults.
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Her hip movement is not accidental. Her excitement level is something that many tutorials overlook. It seems as if she is humping your hand. This is an unconscious movement, and you should try to keep up with it. It could be challenging to continue rubbing her thighs and other body parts when she is not still.
This is the crucial part! Don’t remove your fingers, and continue what you are doing because she is about to reach her orgasm.
All women’s vaginas are different, as you should know by now. Regardless of the shape, continue rubbing her. The rubbing may change, but she has to tell you how to do it.
Stay calm and don’t worry. You must have seen a few pussy selfies, right? So, even if your partner’s privates are different, focus on the basic technique, which is always similar.
Do you see that glistering fluid in her vagina? That’s the indication of her horniness. The more she gets excited, the more her bodily fluids will be visible. It doesn’t always have to be precise. The liquid can be clear, like thin mucus, or it can be thick.
If you see whiteish liquid that in some ways reminds you of semen, don’t freak out. This is normal.
What’s the g-spot? I like to think of it as her “orgasm button”. It’s located just inside the vagina and below where her clit is located. The g-spot and clitoris are two ends of the same thing. However, you should massage the g-spot with the same softness as the clitoris, it can become too sensitive and painful to the touch. There are many ways to stroke the clitoris, vagina and the g-spot. You can practice and learn how it works with each woman.
A happy woman will be more than willing to reciprocate. If you can make her world explode in millions of pieces, she will fall madly in love with your technique. Well, at least your technique if you don’t have a giant dick. You can also include some butt play if you’re adventurous.